ideal man

inspired by queenie/kwan/brent/amanda's blog hehe =)

my ideal man :

Spiritually
-Loves God above all
-has to be someone I can grow spiritually with and turn to spiritually
-Has a strong passion for God
-can lead me closer to God

Personality
-Someone who is not afraid to show their affection…like he’s not afraid to say “I love you” all the time and give me hugs all the time (I LOVE HUGS!)
-Cares about himself and his health- he has to be athletic, and I have be comfortable working out with him (so far I haven’t felt comfortable working out with anyone yet, even girls. I just workout myself)
-He knows me so well that if he went on those shows he would win.
-Not afraid of telling me the truth (“honey am I fat?”…“yes”… “grr”)
-appear shy yet can be really open with me
-can accept me for who I am (because I can be REALLY weird when you get to know me)
-he challenges me and makes me think
-someone who never appears to be annoyed of me and I know I can share everything/all my feelings with and for me to not be afraid to call him even at 5am in the morning
-Humour- I want someone who I can laugh with all the time and we can go really really crazy together and do really funny and crazy things…needless to say, someone I don’t mind being crazy with, like I don’t need to act too “see mun” with
-Sensitive (like…he would go “aww” and be caring..not gay like “omg you’re late I hate you forever”)
-has a strong conviction- Bold and confident yet shy (shy guys just melts my heart haha)
-Not someone who’s whiny and sticky. knows when to leave me alone
-Someone who is smarter than me
-He has to be decisive because I am not
-See mun- to balance my un-see mun/cho lo-ness
-on mushiness- NO “mui mui ho gwa ju nei ar kiss kiss” (*SHIVERS*/*SHUDDER*) kind of thing, I like mushy, but not TOO mushy oh please you have to be a MAN
-someone who is not siu hei, don’t want a stingy anal man
-(I agree with queenie) someone who has the passion for what he does and believes in
-can cook/clean/do house things and not just sit there, drink beer and watch hockey
-someone who can call me beautiful (even though I’m not..but just…if thinks I am)
-someone I can say anything to at anytime. I have this tendency to blurt out whatever i have in my head (without thinking) when I feel comfortable around you. So yeah the guy has to be someone I’m so comfortable with to do that. And at the same time we can be totally comfortable with being silent
-Not afraid to be a little girly sometimes- like, we can talk about skin products and hair products and brand name stuff. I like guys that cry…not ALL the time (eww), but at least not afraid to shows their emotions
-on music- share the same taste in music or appreciate the same kind of music, I find that the music I like is not really what people like in general. and he has to be musical, I want a guy to sing for me! (Not sing K hahaha)

physical
-preferably Chinese or oriental (I want someone who knows what “ging cham” means or some random Chinese words I say sometimes)
-good breath (um…yeah I can’t stand bad breath)
-smells nice (body-wise) not strong cologne, but nice i-just-walked-out-of-the-shower fresh smell
-knows how to dress (like GAP models! Hehe) (please, no tight pants, or leopard print leather jacket)
-taller than me
-wears glasses (omg this is a must, this is like, my fetish or something haha. I just love it when they sometimes wear contacts and on days they wear glasses. Yes! GIMME!)
-cannot be more “tam leng” than me, we can be equally tam leng though, just not to the extent that he’s like “OMG MY LIP IS CHAPPED TODAY IS THE END OF THE WORLD” kind of thing, because even I don’t care that much. Haha.
-have nice hair (no shiny gelled porcupine hair, I actually like it no-gel sometimes, or use clay or mud, bed-head is great! [yeah I’m being very specific])
-does not have long nails
-short hair, no long hair (I don’t want to date wong fei hong or something) (baldies are..i guess..okay…just please no to Donald trump comb-over’s or “dei jong hoi”)
-a goatee is okay, but preferably clean-shaven, sometimes stubbles can be sexy (ahh ruggedness)
-broad shoulders (or just at least have shoulders)
-no greasy hair
-wears boxers (not briefs! No THONGS! haha)
-sometimes I like it when guys are kind of “lun jun”
-please NO colored contacts or any weird piercing on weird random places (no, not even nipples or brow) but on the ear it’s okay, it’s kind of nice hehe

I really trust that God will provide me with the perfect guy. i know it doesnt have to fit EVERY SINGLE criteria on this list (that would be kind of freaky) because it's all up to Him.
i still remember this letter i wrote for "my future husband" it's somewhere in my room i better dig it up and find it, it's going to be so funny!!
but yeah, i am all giddy now just thinking about the list. hahaha. okay i..(heehee) should (hee hee) stop. (hee hee)