indecisiveness

Apparently, according to a lot of magazines, guys don't like indecisive girls.
Well, who likes indecisive people anyway...

But okay, here's the thing
I know that girls tend to go "oh i don't care"/"i don't mind"/"sure"/"whatever" when asked some questions..which seems very easy going but they actually have something in mind already.
An example...hm..would be
boy: "hey do you want to eat at mcdonald's?"
girl: "sure, BUT it's so fattening"
....'BUT' is the key

actually i think some guys can be really indecisive too, so i'm not just talking about girls
but of course there are very decisive girls and decisive guys also. ok.

I think i'm quite indecisve, and when people ask me things, i usually go "i don't care" too....
thing is, i really DON"T CARE, and i really DON'T MIND, but it's more like, i couldn't make up my mind so i'm just goign to say "i don't mind" first, instead of making some choice and end up having the other person to disagree.

Indecisiveness sucks.

I remember there was this one time (at band camp...haha..no..)
...when my friends and I (jackie, melody, moi) were just going for lunch after church. All 3 of us were in the same car and we were like "so where we heading?"
We looked at each other, and said "i don't know, where do YOU want to go?"
"i don't know, where do YOUUU want to go?"
"i don't mind, why don't you think of some place to go?"
"I dont know, um....anywhere is good with me"
...so we went on this "I don't know i don't care" business for 3 minutes, and we decided to just start to car and just pick on impulse as we pass by the restaurants.
We started at yonge and finch, and jackie started driving on yonge...we passed by some restaurants
"how bout here?"
"sure"
"but it might be expensive"
"oh yeah, okay, let's go somewhere else then"
jackie continued to drive
and then we got off topic and started talking about random things while the car kept on going
and periodically, we pointed out a restaurant or a plaza "oh how bout here!" but we always had these "cons" that we listed out so we just drove on, and on, and on, and on
"where are we GOING?!! AHH I'm HUNGRYY"
"hahaha I DON'T KNOW WHERE DO YOU WANT TO EAT??!"
"i don't KNOW!! HAHA WHERE DO YOUUU WANT TO EAT???!!"
"hahaha"
"hahahahha"
....and we continued going...
we drove around for 2 hours wondering where to eat.
i finally decided to go to "wong gum"
"so where should i park" (<-- haha this is actually not true, i just added it on for humor)
"UGHH SHUT UP AND JUST PARK AT WHEREVER THERE'S A SPOT!"
so we parked the car, and we started walking around the plaza
"so which restaurant do you want to eat at?"
oka, so basically we still had to walk around the plaza to decide where to eat, and we went to a few, stopped by teh entrance, opened the door and went "actually, it's too expenisve, let's try something else"
and we FINALLY decided to go to this one restaurant (of which we still weren't sure about, we kind of hesitantly walked in because the waiter seemed really nice)
but next...came...the MENU
"WHAT SHOULD I EATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT"

so next time you ask me something, and i answer "I don't know"...don't be hatin'
i dont think there's a moral to this story.

p.s. queenie i love you =). and um..as for the book, i'll see when i can get the car so i can give it to your unck-y